Showing posts with label development. Show all posts
Showing posts with label development. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 29, 2016

Last Day of Kindergarten

Wow, what a year this has been for Linnaeus. The little boy who wasn't entirely sure about this whole kindergarten thing has changed into an almost-six-year-old with new friends, interests, and already amazing French skills. I'm so happy we were able to get into French immersion. The year hasn't been without its challenges, but a wonderful teacher and a supportive school have really helped Linny blossom.

Though I'm still slightly conflicted about over programming his summer, we've decided to enroll L in summer school. This means he'll have the regular routine of going (mornings only) to school & doing class work for three weeks in July. The course is specifically for French immersion kindergarteners making the transition to grade one, so I hope it'll be worthwhile for him.

The real proof that his teacher & school have started him off on the right foot was when I asked him if he'd be interested in going to summer school: he responded enthusiastically, yes!

Now to enjoy a week of sleeping in before summer school gets going...





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Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Toddler Eating

Baby Led Weaning is messy! Linnaeus covered in yams
I consider myself pretty lucky that I got a couple of kids who took to eating solid food really well & weren't too picky to start with. Baby Led Weaning was great fun & I kind of miss watching my wee ones awkwardly picking up chunks of veggies & smooshing them into their little mouths. I mean, at four & a half & one & a half they both still get food on their faces & clothes every meal & spill drinks all over the table fairly regularly. However, now it's not so much about how they eat, but what or if.

Linnaeus would eat pretty much anything but leafy foods as a baby & toddler. I'm going to assume that it was because he had trouble grinding it up, being new to molars & all. He had some issues with things like apple skins to start with, but I soon quit peeling everything & he figured it out. He's recently started eating salads, though the lettuce has to be accompanied by a lot of other stuff for him to eat it. Works for me, since I love salads full of nuts, fruit, seeds, eggs, bacon, cheese, veggies, croutons, & whatever else I think to throw in.

Baby Bronte's first Cheerios
Bronte was pretty adventurous to start with too, but has recently gone off bread type foods. She will eat whatever is on it, but leave most of the bread. She seems to see toast, a bun, a bagel, or a tortilla as more of a plate than a food item.

Bronte is also very anti fruit skin. The only way she'll eat apple is having bites of mine, off the core, after I've already eaten the skin. If I hand her a peeled slice or chunk of apple, she still won't eat it. Has to be mine.

Temperature is another thing. Bronte will accept a wider range here than Linnaeus--she loves peas straight out of the freezer, never complains at ice cream or smoothies. Linnaeus, on the other hand, won't tolerate anything much hotter than lukewarm & it took him a good year to stop making faces at how cold ice cream was.

The last thing I find weird about their eating habits is that they seem to alternate in terms of quantity. Some days, Bronte will eat twice as much as her brother. Other days he will eat more than I do & she'll have just a few bites & exclaim, "I done!"

Thankfully the pickiness isn't near the point where I worry about them getting scurvy or something. Overall their diet is fairly balanced, so I'm not going to get stressed out about it. I heard some great advice years ago: when it comes to toddler nutrition, focus on the big picture. Aim for a balance of healthy foods over a week, don't worry about getting in all the food groups (or whatever) at every single meal.

You tell me--did your kids go through an only goldfish crackers phase, or refuse to eat any particular type of food for months? Let me know in the comments... 




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Tuesday, February 11, 2014

A World of Summer Camp Options at the Kids Camp Expo

Summer Camp! Photo courtesy of Elite Tennis Academy
Some of my fondest memories are from the daycamp that I attended when I was a kid. I'd love for my kids to make great memories like those too. I know there are a lot of options out there, so I was excited to hear that I can do a lot of my research in one place: British Columbia's only Kids Camp Expo is happening Sunday, March 2nd at Heritage Hall in Vancouver from 11am-4pm.

Organizer Pratpal Gill started the first expo in June 2013 as an extension of her work at The Empowerment Playground, bridging the gap between parents' desire for information, and camp directors needing an opportunity to showcase their programs.

Types of camps and programs featured at Kids Camp Expo include sports, education, empowerment & leadership, arts, outdoors, & special needs. Camps are for children in preschool up to 18 years old. 

Speakers at the 2014 Expo include Sydney Badger, Personal Chef, Yoga Instructor & Outdoor Educator, as well as Helen Kelesi (AKA "Hurricane Helen"), formerly ranked the #13 Top Women's Tennis Player in the world.


Sunday, March 2, 2014 11:00am - 4:00pm
Virtual expo Sunday, March 2 online
Heritage Hall, 3102 Main Street, 
Vancouver, B.C.
Price: Free/by donation, proceeds go to Camp Goodtimes

Bonus for the earlybirds: the first 100 families receive a gift bag from the expo's sponsors.
Information & online registration: www.kidscampexpo.com
Follow on Twitter @KidsCampExpo & Facebook


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Monday, October 7, 2013

What kind of parent did you want to be?

Now that we have another little baby in the house, it feels like we're starting fresh in some ways. This little girl is sort of a clean slate & a chance to do things better than we did the first time around. Poor Linnaeus was basically our dress rehearsal & gets the brunt of our inexperience with every stage he goes through.

Perusing my blog from when Linnaeus was Brontë's age, I came across a post about what kind of mother I wanted to be. It was interesting to look at a little time capsule of my mindset back then. Three years on, I feel like I'm still learning & growing in the role of mother, but I think I've achieved some of my aspirations.

Here's the list I wrote then of what kind of parent I wanted to be:

  1. warm & affectionate; I hope that he enjoys all the cuddling & kisses that I'm currently showering him with for at least a few more years.
  2. creative; in how I solve problems, as well as in the crafty/artistic activities I hope to do with my boy & also in the sense of continuing to make things for him (clothing, toys, decorations for his room, etc.).
  3. empowered; meaning that I don't just put my child's needs before mine at all costs. I need to take care of myself too. Asking for help from my family, friends & community is part of that & of course, involving Oliver in as much as possible of the work of raising Linnaeus.
  4. relaxed; trying not to be too cautious & anxious about every aspect of his life. I think this is possibly going to be one of the hardest things for me to do.

I think I fit the bill for #1 & 2, though #3 & 4 are still a struggle. I think I don't look too anxious on the surface when it comes to parenting & I do subscribe to a pretty relaxed/free range style when it comes to a lot of things, but it doesn't mean I don't second-guess myself constantly & fret about how he's doing. Er, how they're doing. Still getting used to the fact that I have two children.

Here's hoping Brontë can benefit from some of what I've learned in the past three years...

What was on your list for the kind of parent you wanted to be? For those of you with two or more children, do you think your subsequent children benefited from your experience the first time around?


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Monday, September 30, 2013

The Second Time Around: Savouring the Newborn Days

Too cute for words.
Baby girl is 24 days old. I've had two children for 24 days now. I won't lie, keeping both of them fed, clean (okay, mostly clean) & safe is one of the most difficult challenges I've ever faced in my life. Add the breastfeeding craziness on top of that--breastfeed, bottle feed supplement, pump, track all of the above obsessively on my phone app, visit the doctor weekly, wash & sterilize all the gear daily--& I'm at my wits end.

But there are so many little moments of joy during each day that I try to savour. The surge I feel when I look at my wide-eyed little daughter when she's fully woken up from a nap. The annoyed, cat-like yowl she lets out after she coughs. Even her sneezes are cute. Feeling that warm beanbag weight on my chest when I hold her, curled up like a little tree frog. Stroking her forehead & looking at her soft hair.

What makes it all different on our second time around is that I really know what's to come. (In a general sense--of course she won't be exactly like her brother) Not like I knew from reading the infant development websites & books, but from experience. It's like rereading a favourite novel--no major surprises, but the anticipation is still there & I'll likely get something a bit different out of it.

I know she's going to start getting a chubby, round little face like her brother did, then probably slim out again. I can't wait to see how her hair looks when it grows in more, with what I think is a major cowlick on the front right side of her forehead. I think she's going to look a lot like me, but only time will tell. I'm looking forward to seeing what colour her eyes end up, as they shift over the next months from the dark grey-blue that they are now.

The positives are fun to look forward to, but I think the biggest difference this time around is with the negative aspects to having a newborn. Going through the challenges of no sleep & the low milk supply roller coaster was so difficult with Sprout because it felt like the worst would last forever. As an experienced mama, it's easier to deal with the bumps in the road because I know that 'this too shall pass'. I know that eventually, she'll sleep through the night when she's ready & that I'll survive the sleep deprivation somehow. I know that as hard as the breastfeeding is at the moment, it will get simpler as she grows stronger & gets better at it, meaning fewer bottles & eventually no more pumping.

For those of you with two or more children, how did you find it different with your second (& subsequent) child?


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Friday, July 26, 2013

Would you read these books to your kids?

I know we all want our kids to be happy, we want to protect them from harm & fear. But do you ever wonder if maybe a little fear might be good for them?

Sunday, July 7, 2013

Listicles: My Favourite Words

This week is a good one:
When I saw this week's Listicles topic, I had an idea right away. I love language & after years of studying linguistics & watching Sprout acquire language, my favourite words are ones he uses, of course! When I thought of the words for the list, they all ended up being words that he doesn't pronounce properly. Which, I suppose makes them cuter.

"Look at all the sheepsiz!" at Maplewood Farm
Here are my top ten, written somewhat phonetically:

  1. owligator (elevator)
  2. window-door (sliding glass door--he made up his own word recently when visiting Oma & Opa. I guess he'd never heard the proper term before, as we don't have one at home.)
  3. kimmih (from c'mere, meaning 'I want you to pick me up', an old baby word that he continues to use, particularly when a bit upset.)
  4. bug feet (pins & needles sensation in the feet--love this one!)
  5. dwar (door)
  6. yogoot (yoghurt)
  7. bur (bear--when he says it, the word sounds like 'beurre')
  8. sheepsiz (sheep, plural--part of a recent trend of double-pluralizing things)
  9. pick-up-dump-twuck (pickup truck, I have no idea how this became combined with dump truck into one word. He knows they're different things)
  10. mama (no translation needed, I just love hearing him call me this)


What are your favourite words? Why do you like them?


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